3.1 India
For a number of years, I had announced that I would hand on
the petits frères to the younger generation. It is now done.
That said, remain the founder. I do not believe that the younger
generation wished to forget me and, for my part, I could consider
the petits frères as none other than the life of my life and the
soul of my soul.
But having passed on the work and being yet alive, I had to
find something to quench my insatiable thirst to serve.
Providence had provided that I go to India. I had been
overwhelmed by the poverty of India. In Calcutta I had the
impression that I was in the poverty capital of the world.
3.2 Pilkana
There was in Calcutta a Selesian Father
who lived in one of the poorest sections of Calcutta: Pilkana, in
the heart of an immense shanty town of half a million
inhabitants. The priest took me among the filthy narrow streets,
in the midst of huts built with never mind what, when a man
rushed up to him and explained something to him with great
vehemence. The father said to me: "He has lost his son and
doesn't know how he will be able to bury him; well, I have no
money. But what can I do about it?" I said, "How much
do you need? 100 rupees?" "Oh no, 20 rupees will do
it."
What bitter facts: how easily in Europe we spend the
equivalent of 20 rupees and there, in Calcutta, this man did not
have that sum to bury his infant son.
3.3 The Roses of Calcutta
In Calcutta we had several times seen the extraordinary Mother
Teresa, founder of Missionaries of Charity. She invited us to
come and assist with Christmas dinner at the "death
house."
We went to the Calcutta market to order 140 bouquets of twelve
roses each, in addition to cakes and tangerines. Christmas day we
went to collect all that, and we left for the death house.
We began by giving the roses. Many held out their hands;
others with atrophied hands held out their stumps; others gave
them to those who could not hold them. I bent down to place a
bouquet next to a woman whose body was shriveled. Mother Teresa
said to me: "These are her first flowers of eternity. She
came here to die."
These bouquets illuminated the room and, beside these poor
skeletons, took on an extraordinary majesty.
This is how we celebrated the first Christmas in Calcutta, and
I believe that my last sight on this earth will be perhaps of
those red roses in the midst of those bodies. Was it the great
respect that we ought to show each body who surrounds the soul
that God gave us? Was it something more? Never have I had a sense
of the divine comparable to that given by those flowers, which
became the incense with which the priest honors God. All those
bodies were God and the roses were the incense.
3.4 Brothers of Men
When I returned from India I said to myself: "Can you do
this thing? Yes, you can do this thing."
When I spoke of feeding the children of the Third World, many
people cried out: "You're crazy. It's a drop in the
ocean." I answered: "The ocean is made up of
drops."
We fed the children three times a week. Although it would
double the cost, I believed that in order to have a clear
conscience, we should feed them every day. People said: "But
we don't have enough money" or "we don't have the
time."
While I couldn't foresee in 1968 the ailment that would strike
me in 1969 and end my work with Brothers of Men, I felt, being
unable to tolerate the heat and having very poor support in
India, that I could no longer live the life of the Brothers of
Men.
3.5 Brothers of Heaven and
Earth
Being unable to live without serving, I asked myself how and
whom to serve. It was during the long days following the
Assumption in 1968 that the name burst forth: "Brothers of
Heaven and Earth." It was a thousand times greater than our
poor powers, but I felt that it was the truth.
In effect, it was the mover that had given me life all these
years. It was germ of all my organizations, but the name had
never been spoken. This name expressed the aim of all these
organizations. Today we must dare, today we must say it out loud,
even though we know how much we would be its poor servants: we
must live on the earth but our heads must be turned towards
heaven.
Where else should we turn for help - for love?
Having created a movement to help artists and intellectuals,
"So That The Spirit May Live" in 1932; a movement to
help children in the suburbs of Paris in 1934, "Friends of
the Suburbs"; les petits frères des Pauvres in 1946 to help
elderly people; Brothers of Men in 1965 for the Third World;
there remained those from age 20 to 70 and above all, among them,
the depressed, the isolated, the sick in their homes, the
suicidal and those who have attempted suicide - who have failed
and who need to be brought back into the stream of life - all
these, very many, who have such problems: to care for all who
come and above all to radiate tenderness, the ultimate degree of
love.
In Notre Dame cathedral on December 8, 1969, before a
gathering of about one hundred friends, we finally announced the
creation of the Friends of Heaven and Earth. The name was put
forth - it would remain to live and to grow in the givers of
tenderness.
I founded the petits frères with passion and, I hope, with
love. I founded Brothers of Men with a sad heart for all the
hungry of the earth and with the hope of relieving as many as
possible. I now see the Brothers of Heaven and Earth with a
weakened body but perhaps with a soul more than ever before
concerned for others, a soul joined to eternity, awaiting
"the day and the hour," hoping to serve until the end,
hoping to continue to the end living this marvelous gift that God
gave me in Notre Dame of Paris on Friday, July 7, 1939.